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How to be spontaneous




Being spontaneous can sometimes making living life a bit more exciting, it leaves you on edge and makes you step outside your comfort zone.
Some things that I have been trying to do is decide things in the moment, and not have plans, sometimes no plans are the best type of plans, because they leave so much room for possibility!
Something else I try to do is try and do something I haven't done before, and inorder to go through with it I try to decide it on the day! 
I like to try and learn new things, maybe trying things that help me learn more about myself like meditating. (I do this at home but am yet to try with a class!)
Just keep trying even if the plans don't work out, the point is to be positive and proactive! Sometimes it's good to build yourself up with things you're not comfortable doing and then do something really out of your comfort zone, or you could just be really spontaneous and do the thing that scares you the most, first!
I think being spontaneous in a world where we have so much routine is good, makes us (well me anyway) feel like we are changing and growing and not staying the same.
Change can be good if we look forward to it and try to control it!

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  1. Zahra8 December 2018 at 15:36

    I can agree on your perspective on change and spontinuity, its something I want to strive for in my own life. Thank you for this motivational post ;)

    I would love it if you could check out my newest blog post on Relationships and love:
    Zahra's Adventures- The Way Out Will Always Break Your Heart

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    1. Taki11 March 2019 at 14:33

      So sorry only saw this comment now
      ! Thanks I'm glad you liked it
      ! I will defo check your post out!

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